My Dreamer

My Princess is a dreamer...and I really don't think she gets that from me.  I am a more realist kinda girl...in almost everything...I have my moments though. 

She started girl scouts in the fall and the time has come for the annual cookie sale.  We were talking about goals.  I explained what a goal was and asked her what her goal was as far as how many boxes of cookies she would like to sell.  She quickly responded, "My goal is 1000 boxes!"  Yep, she's a dreamer alright! I told her that maybe she should be more realistic about her goal and set it a little lower so it could actually be something she could possibly reach.  She sat and thought and then said, "Okay 300 boxes!"  I smiled. 

As of yesterday though, she has sold seventy-eight boxes of girl scout cookies.  As the end nears, the Momma in me will have to resist (maybe unsuccessfully) making it an even one hundred.

Review

I had my annual review at work yesterday.  I was pleased.  It made me feel very competent in my position and it was nice to hear how much my boss appreciates me and how highly he thinks of me and the work that I do.  It was a great way to start my work day...and it got me thinking...

Some of you may already do this in your homes.  How great it would be to do an annual, semi-annual, or even monthly review in our marriages, in our parenting, in our homes?  Would it make me think twice before disrespecting my husband?  Would it make a difference in the way I parent my children...the quality time I spend with them?  Would it make a difference in how efficiently my home is run?  I am sure it would...and I am also positive that kind words from members of the household...words of appreciation...would do wonders in how often my family and myself are doing something with a cheerful heart.

How ever often, I think it might be something to think about incorporating some sort of "review" in our house.  Too often, we take each other for granted around here.  Our household duties are just expected as part of the husband's, or the wife's, or the children's job description.

I think it's time for a Brady Family meeting here.

Wordless Wednesday : Introducing

Build Em Up!

Over Christmas break, the boys discovered Legos...and love them!  They both got two sets for Christmas and while all the pieces have gotten mixed up (easily fixed) they have enjoyed playing.  They are brought out at least once a day and played with for hours at a time.  In fact, that's just what my littlest man is doing as I type.  Build away boys, build away.

Holidays to the Present...

- Our Christmas was wonderful.  We got to spend it in Michigan with my side of the family.  It was filled with fun, food, and lots of laughs.  It was great to see everyone, watch my kids play with my siblings' kids, and laugh at each other while we played Just Dance 2.  It just seems to keep getting harder when we have to say our goodbyes and take our usual route home.  My middle man has the most difficult time saying good bye.  This time, he did the most heart breaking sob down my parents' long driveway...which makes me only cry harder.  It's always sad to me when we pass by the welcome center and the Welcome to Michigan sign on the other side of the highway.  It's then that I truly feel disconnected from my family...it always gets me a little teary.  Can't wait to get back to Pure Michigan!

- It was so nice having the kids home with me for two weeks.  We spent a lot of time just being lazy.  The time flew by so fast and before I knew it, I found myself with an ache in my heart driving away from the drop off line watching my older two kids in my rear view mirror.  They are happy to be back in to our usual routine...and my little man is happy to have Momma all to himself.

- I did some much needed painting in my kitchen and dining room...and got something new to hang on my dining room wall.  Because I love painting so much (and I am not being sarcastic) I couldn't stop myself and continued on down the stairs.  It gave everything a fresh look...and it was nice and relaxing for me.  Best part is that it was all leftover paint from the kids' rooms (we keep it pretty neutral around here) and so it didn't cost me a penny.

- This past weekend, Dan and I got some alone time with our princess.  The boys went to their cousins' house for a sleepover and she chose to stay with us.  We went out to eat, just the three of us, and then she wanted to head over to Borders to pick out another chapter book of her own.  I thought we would be there forever (it was a bit overwhelming for her) but she finally decided on The Little Princess.  She's a great little reader and I am happy to cultivate a love of reading in her.  She has been reading in her room every chance she gets.

All in a days work...

I have a pretty cushy schedule.  A month after Dan started his new job, I was able to cut back hours at work.  I have four set days a month that I work (three Saturdays and usually a Monday).  I pick and chose if I want to work any other hours for the month.  I am so thankful for my job.

Yesterday, I would have rather stayed home.  It was the kids first day back to school and I was feeling really down about that and a few other things...not to mention the laundry that is taking over all of our laundry baskets. So, I tried to find coverage so that I could take the day off.  It looked promising, but in the end, I walked through the door of the hospital at 1:25 and started my shift.

I believe there is a reason and a plan behind everything.  God knew that I didn't want to work, but He knew what I needed even more.  I was supposed to be at work yesterday...it just took a few hours for me to realize that.

It wasn't really until about four hours in to a very busy shift that I began to put it all together.  I saw a lot of my old patients last night...patients that I haven't seen in about six or so months...people who I know their story and have prayed for...a double lung transplant, a colon cancer patient, a breast cancer survivor, another cancer patient all of which have made me so very thankful for everything that I have and all of which I truly admire their strength and fight.

It was an encouragement and a blessing to be at work yesterday...and someone was even kind enough to treat me to dinner.  Not bad, not bad at all.

All Things New

A New Year
A Time of reflection
Thankfulness floods over me
because of all He has brought us through
over the past year
His faithfulness
His provision
His love
His mercy
His grace
His reminder
at the stroke of midnight
that the old things are gone
and the new has come
He has made all things new
We put 2010 behind us
but not without
remembering
and meeting a new year
with anticipation.

Merry Christmas...

...from our house to yours! 

Here's an out take that I couldn't resist posting.  We tried getting our beloved Curtis and Macy in the picture too...Curtis wasn't having it.

Postponed

My princess was up this morning at quarter to three with an earache.  I took her temp and she wasn't running one.  She's been dealing with one sickness after another.  I went back and forth with myself in my head about calling the hospital and telling them she wouldn't be in today.  I ended up deciding to go ahead and take her in just in case.  The end result: We are home, my princess is still sleeping, and she still has those pesky tonsils of hers.  Yep, surgery was a no go today.  They sent us home with instructions for her to get better and reschedule.  I am all for the get better part.  Not too thrilled about the whole reschedule...preparation and waiting.  I had a good cry when we got back out to the parking lot and then again after I got my princess resting comfortably in her bed.  I know it's God's perfect timing...and today just wasn't the day.  This Mommy just wants her baby to finally feel good again.

"Sergaree"

My princess is a planner, list maker just like myself.  So, when I came across this bag sitting by her bedroom door, it made me proud.  Tomorrow is her big day...she is saying "good-bye" forever to her tonsils.  Little by little, I have been giving her a heads up on what to expect and what is going to happen so she is a bit more comfortable and not so nervous that day.  Well, I told her on Tuesday, after talking to the surgery department, about a list of things she could bring.  She was very excited to find that she can come in her pj's, bring a stuffed animal, and pack her own special blanket...anything to help her through.  She found a gift bag, labeled it, and began to check things off her list.  She seems to be doing a lot better with the idea....and Mommy just can't wait until it's all over.

Gifts in a Jar

This year, the kids decided they wanted to make their teachers something for Christmas.  Last year we made Kait's teacher a gift in a mug.  This year, we went bigger and used a jar.  It was a lot of fun and made me wonder why we don't give these more often to more people.  I got the quart jars on clearance at Walmart and then just had to buy the M&M's and ribbon...we had the rest on hand.  Fun, fun!

Wordless Wednesday - Our Tree